Dear Plagued with Pushy Parents,

One thing I have learned is that my parents are a lot wiser than me! Even though I thought I knew everything, growing up I came to realize I had to learn it all for myself. But if your parents have valid reason to not like your boyfriend, then maybe you should listen to them.

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Hey Kim!
I love your glowing skin, you always have the perfect tan!!!
I'm the biggest fan of Magic Tanning Booths. Do you use it?? If yes...what products do you use to achieve the best results??? I know that proper preparation of the skin prior to tanning as well as after the session is important. But I don't know what products are the best...HELP!!! ;)
What is your personal opinion about sunless tanning???
Love you!!! xoxo

I definitely feel ya on the whole "parents being pushy" deal. It is true, as Kim said, sometimes parents DO know best, but it's hard to tell depending on the situation. I never quite understood this, until I became a parent myself && now at 25 I understand the part of the "pushy parent", a little more. But, anyway, I never listened to my parents when I was young && chances are you probably won't either, especailly when it comes to "love". You just have to live && learn for yourself, take the good with the bad && hope it's not TOO bad to handle. I'm sure your parents just care about you a lot && don't want to get hurt but sometimes we just have to learn those things on our own. I know I did. Best of luck to ya! ;)

C.

Kimberly Noel Kardashian!!!

You should let us upload pics of us on your website, so you can see what your fans look like! You can finally put a face with the people that write you all day. You should add another heading after Keeping up with the Kardashians and call it "MY FANS".

Love ya!

I think that you should take your parents into consideration. They do know more than you becasue they have experienced the realities of life, good, bad, and ugly. Just listen to what they have to say. Why go through a bad situation when your parents are trying to save you from it? It is the job the older to teach the younger and they are looking out for you. Although sometimes we dont listen to our parent, we can sometimes find ourselves in very bad situation; just be careful... do let your heart rule, make your decision based on logic. It will save you alot of heartache.

*don't let your heart rule...

sorry

Parents do know best, but sometimes they might not like a guy based on something that is NOT right..such as race, hair color, or anything ridiculous like that. Then you SHOULDN'T have a reason to listen. That's based on being ignorant and judgementa rather than being wise and safe.

Can't wait for shopdashonline.com
Will you ship to APO/FPO addresses (US Military overseas)? I hope so...
Thanks doll ;)

Kim why are you only answering like one question and taking the time to post up several other posts. I know you're busy, but really. HOW MUCH effort did you "really" put into answering this posts. Nada.

Hi Kim!!! I love your sisters and the show so much:) Reminds me of my own "brady bunch" type of family. So happy you have this site so we can "Keep Up" better:) Love ya

Rach

Dear Plagued with Pushy Parents, I would have to highly agree with Kim. Parents do know best...not that you shouldn't follow your heart but love is blind and your surroundings pretty much see more than you do at the time, especially people that care and love you so much. If your boyfriend is mistreating you in any way; Verbal, Mental,Physical, or you even have a single doubt about your relationship, then it's clear your not in the right one. It's important to end a relationship before you become comfortable and make it harder to leave. Good luck with your decision.

P.S. Kim, our world is surrounded with negitivity, it just makes us positive people that much stronger. Keep being you...your beautiful!!

It's good to remember that every guy that you date isn't going to be "the one." A lot of girls make the mistake, especially when we are young, of investing too much in a relationship or boy. Often I see girls mistake "the drama" of the situation for being the "relationship." Dating should be fun and about discovering your social self.
Talk to your parents and seek reasons for why they have made the decisions they have made. Go from there. Is the bigger issue about the boys or about the lack of control?

I am SO FREAKIN sick of ppl coming here being rude. F off haters.

Good advice Kim.

Do they like Reggie?

I'm sure they do.

I saw him on Ellen and he seemed really down to earth and nice.

Not to mention very GENEROUS!

Not to mention very HOT!

You go girl!

LMFAO!!!

xoxoox

Melissa

Good answer Kim.
Parents sometimes know best

Its hard to admit, but sometimes are parents do actually know best. Remember, they've been through alot themselves and maybe they see something you dont yet. If not, try to show them that who you've found has good qualities and give them the oppurtunity to see that for themselves instead of automatically rebelling. Good luck and take care honey .. ; )


No Drama in Texas

Hey Kim,
I'm going to have to agree with you on this one. I thought I knew EVERYTHING when I was growing up, but I soon realized how wrong I was. Sometimes you have to learn for yourself, but taking your parents' advice might not be such a bad idea...
xoxo

u a hoar

hi Kim,
i love to watch your show. i really like your sisters and you. i really appreciate your mom managing everything... well sometimes beyond her ability. i think it's sweet.=)

great advice kim! i agree that parents do know best in a lot of areas ... but i don't think they know best in some. lol. so i think it's most likely they haven't seen all the good things your bf has to offer you. hopefully they'll learn to trust your judgment. and quickly! good luck.

Hey is it ture you and reggie bush are together and about to me married?

Growing up my parents were super strict. Even after I turned 21 they were. They never approved anyone I ever dated. Being annoyed by that I turned lezbo. I am so kidding. I did meet the man of my dreams. He has his masters and works on the stock market. I did marry him even though my parents still don't like him. Sometimes you have to go with your heart. Just make sure he isn't a loser and make sure he has good credit. Sounds shallow I know but if you marry this person you want a good start.
tootles

My parents never liked anyone I brought home. So I stopped bringing them home. I have been with the same person for 3 years now and they don't even want to meet her, so I don't bother with it...but that is just me.

Could someone please tell me how I can post a question for Kim on this website? write back at solismobilenotary@yahoo.com Thanks!

Hey Kim,

I agree, parents are USUALLY wiser and are right MOST OF THE TIME in knowing what's best for their child. However, sometimes one just has to learn on their own experiences. You can take your parents advice, you can listen very carefully, but in the end the decision is yours, you have to live with it. What's right for your parents, might not be right for you.

Love,
Jhanna.

P.S. Kim please continue to be so beautiful inside and out and down to earth. You are unlike any other celebrity out there, truly one of a kind!

P.S. I think it's a good idea if you let your fans post their pictures along with their comments so you can put a face to them.

Hi Kim,

I was recently talking with my mother about my Arabian Nights Themed Baby Shower and we were going over the gift bag contents for my guest. When I showed her some of the Indian bracelets that I purchased, she said that your sweetie Reggie had given you a similar really gorgeous piece that was custom made with the attached ring out of diamonds!!! LOVE IT!!!

I don't always catch the show, so I am sure I have missed it when it was shown. I would love to see a picture of it because I heard it was stunning. I'm sure your fans would love to see it as a part of your "KIM STYLE" area on the website too.

Include the baubles and bling darn it!!!! LOL
Dana L.

Hello Miss Kim Kardashian! How R U? You Are A Gorgeous Young Lady & I Thank U For Letting Me See That In Real Life In Florida! It Was The Greatest Day Of My Life 'till This Point! Keep On Popping & I'll Keep On Rockin' To Ur Style! P.S. U & Reggie Take Care With Love!

hey kim i just want to say i love u and i think ur a great role model to all the girls out there and i really wanna thank you for everything that u do! when i grow up i wanna be just like u!!!!! i love u kim!

i totally agree, sometimes parents and the people around us knows better since they are not the ones who are blindly in love like you are. if others keep telling you the same stuff over again they are probably right and u should consider their advise before u make a mistake u might regret. after all, parents are older and wiser than we are.....but at the end, its all up to u!

I agree with you in the fact that parents take the lead in the Experience And Wisdom Category. I Have A First Hand Account Of That As I Played The Role Of Parent To My 3 Siblings! It's Just So Hard To Let Us Go Out On Our On! Your Parents Did U Right As Your Style & Personna Is On The Market (It's Smoking Hot!). If Anybody's Feeling What I'm Saying (including The K Crew); Then Hit Me Up At austinpowders014@yahoo.com John J

hi kim my name is lisa i just love your show it is so awesome to see you and your sisters on there and how you deal with all sorts of diffrenr things i am gonna add you as a friend

Dang girl you are so hot and I want to do you right now! If you need a d¡¿k call then it's carltinomega@walla.com I want some responses tell me what you think of me!

hello :) I was curious as to how you respond to some of these off the wall comments people leave you? I was also wondering how your business got started? best wishes

Dear Kim,
I have come to a point with in myself that i just want to disappear, You have heard from me before how i have been using your exercise tape and it was making me lose weight. But i just feel so disgusting, i look in the mirror and its just a feeling of disgust where i want to throw up at the sight of myself. I feel so ugly . Its to the point where i where baggy clothes now to cover myself because i feel so horrific. at times i truly feel that it would be better if i wasn't on earth anymore. My mother tells me everyday that i would be so pretty if i just lost weight and that right now im ugly and my eyes are sunken in because of how much fat is on my face. I dont know what to do anymore to lose weight i have tried everything and i do want to do anything surgical. Kim please help ne, ive come to a point where i just want to give up on myself. I have pictures of you all over my room because you are the essence of beauty from the inside out, and ur my muse, i just want to look in the mirror and be happy with my self. please help

Nora Zahedi

Dear Kim,
I have come to a point with in myself that i just want to disappear, You have heard from me before how i have been using your exercise tape and it was making me lose weight. But i just feel so disgusting, i look in the mirror and its just a feeling of disgust where i want to throw up at the sight of myself. I feel so ugly . Its to the point where i where baggy clothes now to cover myself because i feel so horrific. at times i truly feel that it would be better if i wasn't on earth anymore. My mother tells me everyday that i would be so pretty if i just lost weight and that right now im ugly and my eyes are sunken in because of how much fat is on my face. I dont know what to do anymore to lose weight i have tried everything and i do want to do anything surgical. Kim please help ne, ive come to a point where i just want to give up on myself. I have pictures of you all over my room because you are the essence of beauty from the inside out, and ur my muse, i just want to look in the mirror and be happy with my self. Please Help!

Nora Zahedi

Dear Miss Kardashian,
You probably find it strange for a guy to be writing to you for advice but I'd like a woman's oppinion (or that of several women).

Rescently I was involved in a short but serious long-distance, online relationship with the girl of my dreams while I was deployed to Iraq. One night I seriously screwed up and had a cyber affair with another girl I knew online.

I know it was a stupid, horrible mistake and I didn't want to make it worse then it already was so the next morning I messaged my girlfriend to confess and beg for forgiveness. If I hadn't she never would have known and we'd probably still be together.

Was I wrong to tell her? And is there ever such a thing as forgiveness after a betrayal like mine?

Thank you for your time and I apologize for being long-winded.

Steven

Hi Kim,

I think your so purrrrrrrty. Wish i had your face! Keep up the good work!

Listen to your parents. They are the ones who are looking out for you in your life. If they don't want you to be with someone, then like Kim said, it's probably for the best.

Everyone thinks their parents are trying to prevent them from having fun and what not, but truth be told, they just love you and want what's best for you.

Plus, you're probably on the bad boy kick, that usually doesn't work out so well in the end. :)

HEY WELL I THINK THAT KIM GIVES GOOD ADVICE PARENTS KNOW BEST

Hey Kim,

I absoloutely LOVE you. I think you are the most beautiful woman in the world. Sometimes I come online to surf the web and see that some people have nasty things to say about you but I say IGNORE them, they are just jealous and keep doing you. You are beautiful and seem to come from a nice family that loves and supports eachother even though you act a little crazy sometimes. I was surprised to see how down to earth you all are.Your family reminds me a lot of mine. I do have a question for you though....Have you ever felt like you weren't pretty and do you have any insecurities? What advice would you give to young girls about feeling like they don't compare to others especially those in the media? (I think there's nothing wrong with your nose though! You're out of your mind girl! lol)

hey kim ur so beutiful i just have a lil question my friend get mad at me because i have a really big ass....and the guyz are alwayz checking me out wat should i do!!!

hey kim i have a boyfriend and he is the best but ny parents hate him what should i do about it?
sincerly,
Kaylee

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